I wish I could just say “no” when a border is crossed, be with myself and move on without entering into a discussion about how the other is “wrong” or going into the other’s behaviour. Well, in this case the person came walking towards me finger pointing at me and warning me to be very very careful with what I was going to say. -after me giving the reason for my upset with her. I didn’t bounce back, actually the hairs in my neck started to stand up straight; about to bite her in the neck… I walked away and got help. In the background hearing the words of this person that I was going to tell on her and complain… Fuck yeah you’re right I am, I thought.
Looking at what I just wrote I realise that there is a difference with a trauma related response and setting a clear boundary. In both cases I intend to respond with awareness. Working on it!! hahaha or it’s just me “the pearl” of my experiences. What ever… Fragile like a bomb or so… still digesting.
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